Hate public speaking? You can still do a Parent Talk
[.style-intro]If the thought of speaking in front of other parents makes you nervous, you’re not alone. Lots of parents feel the same way – and the good news is, you don’t have to be a confident speaker to make a real difference[.style-intro]
First of all, just remember, this isn't about giving a perfect speech, it's about bringing people together to start this conversation. It's a peer-to-peer talk, designed to spark change – not an expert presentation. We've refined and tested the slides to make it easy as possible to present, whether or not you're a practiced speaker. Lots of parents have found that it's a great way to practice their speaking skills, and gain more confidence.
But if you really don't think you can do it, it doesn't matter – a successful Parent Talk is always a team effort. What matters most is creating the space for parents to come together, share experiences, and start a positive conversation about raising children in the digital age.
Everyone has a role to play
Some people enjoy speaking; others shine at organising. Both are essential.
If you’d rather stay behind the scenes, you can still:
- Talk to your headteacher and book a space
- Pick a time that suits parents
- Spread the word
- Get slides, flyers and QR codes ready
- Create a warm, friendly setting
Without that organising work, the talk doesn’t happen. You don’t need to deliver the words to make a real impact – you just need to help make the space.
Find someone who’s happy to speak
If you don’t want to present, invite someone who does. You could:
- Ask another parent who’s confident speaking
- Invite a parent from a nearby school who’s hosted a talk
- Contact your SFC regional leader – they may be able to help
What matters most is that the event feels open, welcoming and kind.
The power’s in the conversation
Parents don’t come for a perfect speech – they come to connect. The Parent Talk is a relaxed, honest chat about raising kids in the digital age. The tone you set together – warm, friendly, non-judgemental – is what makes it powerful.
Don’t let nerves stop you
Almost everyone feels nervous at first, but most say it’s easier than they expected – because it’s not a performance, it’s a conversation.
Even if you never speak publicly, you can organise, promote, welcome, make tea, or follow up. Every role helps spark something new – conversations begin, people feel less alone, and schools start to shift.
👉 [Download the slides and get your school’s Parent Talk started]
